Talking about Spirituality

It’s important to talk with your kids about spirituality, but it can be tough to bring up the topic. It’s a very personal matter, and many people feel uncomfortable talking about it. There are many ways, however, to bring up the topic that don’t put pressure on you or your child, and can facilitate insightful conversations about your views on spirituality.

• When something takes your breath away (such as a sunset, a piece of art, or someone being extraordinary kind to someone else), point it out to your child. Talk about why the experience is spiritual for you.
• Many young people see clear connections between their own spiritual development and their actions in the world. For many, a sense of purpose is connected to their spirituality. When your child talks about feeling a sense of purpose or direction, talk about the spiritual dimensions of what he or she feels called to.

• Ask your children about the differences they see between spirituality and religion, and share your own opinion. How closely are they related? How does one impact the other?

Talking with your child about spirituality can be a great learning experience for both of you. Make it a point to bring it up in conversation, and see where the discussion goes. You might be surprised!