Previous Tips of the Day

Tip of the Day March 5

Encourage your kids to try different forms of physical activity. Exercise isn’t fun if it’s boring—or if it becomes a chore. Keep trying different types of exercise until your child finds something that interests her.

Tip of the Day March 4

Recognize that kids will act out when they’re stressed or you’re stressed. Take time to calm down and strategize about what you really want from your kids (such as helping them grow up well) rather than what you immediately want from them (such as becoming quiet).

Tip of the Day March 3

Balance the amount of times you say yes and the times you say no to your child. You don’t want to refuse everything your child asks for, but you also don’t want to give in every time. Work on making your yeses more about creative ways to assert your values and boundaries in a positive way.

Tip of the Day March 2

Make your home a fun place. Some families put up a basketball hoop. Others create an area for teens to hang or play video games. Some have scrapbooking supplies or other crafts for kids. Others stock the fridge.

Tip of the Day March 1

Be sensitive to what embarrasses your child. Young teens in particular can be extremely self-conscious. Connect with them in playful ways but notice when your child’s mood starts to change.

Tip of the Day February 28

Don’t ask children if they’ve told the truth; this can corner them into telling another lie. Instead, say something like, “It can be hard to tell the truth sometimes. It’s okay for you to make a mistake, but it isn’t okay for you to lie about what happened.”

Tip of the Day February 27

When you know your young child has lied (and they all do at times), point it out. Explain why it’s wrong to lie. Talk about how important it is to be honest.

Tip of the Day February 26

When you fudge the truth, admit it and apologize. This sounds simple, but it is not always easy.

Tip of the Day February 25

Call your children’s attention to times when their words and actions don’t match and times when they do. Encourage them to do the same for you.

Tip of the Day February 24

You are both teacher and role model of positive values. The ways in which you talk about values and live by them will strongly influence your children’s development of them, especially when your children become teenagers.