The next time you and your parenting partner have a conflict, offer a compromise that you’re willing to make.
Remember to ask your child for her or his opinion when you are planning events or outings. Then really listen.
Think of some of your family jokes or funny memories. When you have a chance, bring one of them up in a conversation with your children.
Ask your kids what family tradition or ritual they like most
Start a routine of holding family meetings once a week or month to talk about plans, how things are going, and so on.
Think back over family time last week: Are you doing enough together? Spending too much time on work? TV? Make a small change to help align your priorities and time.
If you sense your child is stressed, let her or him know that you will talk about it and listen without judgment.
Have family fun with metaphors: what kind of animal would each member would be? Kind of car? What kind of food?
Be proud of your family, and let your kids know you feel that way.
Children will always challenge limits. Talk about why you set rules on movies, games, and curfews. To help with compliance, share your expectations with the parents of their friends.
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