When you see “rebellion” coming, nip it. Remind your child she has a choice. She can be a force for good, or for the dark side. Ask your child: How can you use your power for good?
Tip of the Day January 29
Take photos of your kids with their friends. Make prints for them to look at or display.
Tip of the Day January 28
Be low-keyed when you’re around kids. Kids tend to gravitate toward calm adults who listen to them.
Tip of the Day January 27
When you travel, send postcards to kids to let them know you’re thinking of them.
Tip of the Day January 26
When a child breaks a rule, make sure she understands that the consequence is her choice. If she chooses to break the rule, she is choosing the consequence as well. Remind her that she has a choice.
Tip of the Day January 25
Be consistent in enforcing rules. Help children know they can rely on the boundaries being there. (Eventually they will learn to appreciate the safe environment you are setting!)
Tip of the Day January 24
Explain what will happen if rules are broken in terms your child will understand. Have them state them back in their own words.
Tip of the Day January 23
Encourage kids to “have a happy heart.” Set an expectation for joy in the home and articulate it often.
Tip of the Day January 22
Angry? Frustrated with your child? Try lowering your voice. Speak quietly and slowly, and in a quiet place. Lowering your temperature will help lower theirs.
Tip of the Day January 21
When a situation spins out of control and you realize you’ve landed in a power struggle, stop! Take a breath. Walk away. Count to 10. Do something to disrupt your part in the struggle. Then, get back on track. If the child misbehaved, restate their choice, the rule, the consequence, and enforce the rule. Get more tips like this one here.