Previous Tips of the Day

Tip of the Day March 11

Talk it over when things don’t go exactly as your kids may have hoped. Some of your kids’ efforts will be less than successful. Rather than downplay the experience, try to find a lesson in there; there almost always is one.

Tip of the Day March 10

Let kids be themselves. Part of the wonder of parenting is realizing how different our kids may be from us. Nurture and support those differences, and seek to understand them. Remember to help them explore their spark!

Tip of the Day March 9

Praise your child in the presence of others. Although you may be tempted to recite a litany of complaints about your child to their other parent, grandparents or other relatives, be sure to mention the good things they’ve done without being boastful or falsely positive.

Tip of the Day March 8

Focus criticism on your child’s actions rather than on the child herself. Instead of: You are so lazy! If you’d studied you would have passed that test! Try: You are clearly capable of getting an ‘A’ in this class, so it disappoints me that you didn’t put in the time preparing for the test.

Tip of the Day March 7

Treat yourself well. If your kids see you model positive self-esteem, they may learn to do the same. Don’t put yourself down or be unnecessarily self-effacing; if you’re afraid to claim your good traits, they may be reluctant to claim theirs as well.

Tip of the Day March 6

Nothing will close the door of communication between you and your kids faster than a signal that you don’t take their feelings seriously, so be sure to listen. Today their grievance may be something you consider trivial, but you’re building a foundation for them to share the more serious stuff later.

Tip of the Day March 5

Set achievable goals. Nothing helps boost a kid’s confidence like attaining a goal, so think realistically about some of the things they might to accomplish and help them set small, incremental objectives that will get them there.

Tip of the Day March 4

Show an interest in your child’s friends, activities and interests. Even when you’re tired or overwhelmed, make it a point to ask questions, show up at events, and remember the people and things that are important to them.

Tip of the Day March 3

Don’t let your kids give up on something just because it’s difficult. If you do, you may reinforce their fears about not being capable or worse yet, miss the opportunity to teach the importance of perseverance and commitment.

Tip of the Day March 2

If your daughter is a great singer, or your son is a math whiz, tell them! They may already know it, but hearing it from you will do wonders for their self-esteem.