Discipline

Because I Said So! Dealing with Post-Discipline Guilt

By: Marie Williams

Almost daily, we’re faced with delivering the news to our kids that they are “not in charge” and yes, actually, they need to “do what I say because I am the parent!” And if they still refuse, you have to put some muscle behind it: curtail some of their freedoms, take away a privilege, or use stern language. If you are still struggling to find a positive way to discipline your kids, you’re not alone. It’s tough, and it’s a balancing act. As parents, we almost always want to give kids what they want and when we can’t, it may make us feel guilty. Read more >

Oh My Gaaawwd, Mom! You’re Such an Idiot!

By: Jennifer Griffin-Wiesner

Sass. Tantrums. Whining. Shop Guy (my husband) and I have seen it all—and then some. Fortunately, I was an emotional kid too (okay, bratty at times), despite having fabulous parents whom I adore. That perspective let me know that these behaviors weren’t about us being bad parents or having bad kids. They resulted from dynamics of personality and situation. Read more >

Pioneer Parenting: Breaking Negative Patterns of Family Dysfunction

By: Vicki Bohling

Every family has strengths, but some families also have weaknesses. Research has shown that adults raised in dysfunctional families frequently report difficulties forming and maintaining intimate relationships, maintaining positive self-esteem, and trusting others; they fear a loss of control, and deny their feelings and reality. It’s true—our early influences can leave behind deep grooves—both good and bad— that we tend to carry around for the rest of our lives. Dysfunction can be a difficult cycle to break, but it is possible. In my work with families, I refer to this process as “pioneer parenting”. For all pioneers who have been the first to enter new territory, the road is often long and bumpy, but the destination points can be incredibly rewarding and the legacy is definitely priceless. Learn more >

Everyday Parenting Ideas: I Hate You! 6 Tips for Surviving Teen Angst

“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around.

4 Easy Ideas to Help Parents Keep Cool when Things Get Heated

By: Michele Timmons

Do your kids ever push you to the point where you’re “seeing red”? Since the beginning of time, kids have been pushing parents’ buttons, and it can be difficult to step out of the fire, cool off, and maintain a positive attitude despite the situation. Get tips >

5 Clues to Help You Crack the Code on Kid Behavior

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

It happened again. Your child did something that completely puzzled you—or made you want to scream! Why do kids act the way they do? Use the following five questions as guiding clues to help you crack the code on kid behavior. Get clues >

Tips for Keeping Sibling Rivalry Under Control

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain
Don’t you wish you could just be a parent some days instead of a referee of a fight between your kids that never seems to end? Get help here.

Blowing a Teachable Moment

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

You had the perfect opportunity to teach your child an important lesson, but you blew it. Now what? Read more >

Steps for Successful Sleepovers

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

How can you make a sleepover a successful experience for your child? It all depends on your child’s age and the steps you take to ensure a good experience. Read more >

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