ParentFurther Blog


By: Marie Williams
Today, more than ever before--and at earlier ages than ever before--our kids are consistently receiving information about romance, dating, and sex from multiple sources besides parents. Television, the Internet, and peers can all contribute to ideas about sex that may be inaccurate or incomplete. And today's reality is that the traditional view of "The Talk" assumes that young people are almost completely ignorant about sex and sexuality. Well, they aren’t. But parents need not panic! Remember that you know your kid better than anyone. No one can tell you with any certainty what’s best for you to say, or decide the right time for you to say it. Here are some essential guidelines to help you start thinking about the conversation. Read more >

Other Blog Posts

By: Ann Saylor

When cabin fever starts to kick in, it’s time to get creative! Here are some fun ways to make indoor memories with your family when it’s cold outside. Get tips >

By: Vicki Bohling

Every family has strengths, but some families also have weaknesses. Research has shown that adults raised in dysfunctional families frequently report difficulties forming and maintaining intimate relationships, maintaining positive self-esteem, and trusting others; they fear a loss of control, and deny their feelings and reality. It’s true—our early influences can leave behind deep grooves—both good and bad— that we tend to carry around for the rest of our lives. Dysfunction can be a difficult cycle to break, but it is possible. In my work with families, I refer to this process as “pioneer parenting”. For all pioneers who have been the first to enter new territory, the road is often long and bumpy, but the destination points can be incredibly rewarding and the legacy is definitely priceless. Learn more >

By: Jennifer Griffin-Wiesner

Mom, Can I Sleep at Jack’s Tonight?

Ah, sleepovers…the epicenter, thus far, of peer pressure and questionable teenage behavior in my son’s life. As my kids have gotten older, I realize that I was unprepared for the transition from the little kid mega-event of a sleepover to the casual, “Mom, can I sleep at ____’s tonight.” This new, impromptu “crashing at someone’s house” version of sleepovers can bring along with it a series of puzzling (and maybe even disturbing) scenarios that will make you ask—both of your kid and of the host parents—“Really???” Read more >

By: Marie Williams

It’s pretty much universal knowledge that “getting healthy” is the number one New Year’s resolution. Yet, too often it’s the first thing we give up on! But let’s stop and think about how we could positively impact our kids, if we just followed through on getting healthy (and maintaining a healthy lifestyle). Here’s some quick-and-easy advice for parents who want to keep their family’s health goals on track—not only for the first two weeks of January—but all year round. Read more >

By: Tricia Cornell

We’ve all done it. Our eyes roll up into our eyelids; we curl the corners of our mouths—maybe we even let out a little snort. It’s the dreaded eye-roll, and it’s the ultimate sassy retort. Chances are, we’ve also seen our tweens and teens do it. Maybe their versions include a shoulder shrug or an under-the-breath mutter, “Whatever,” or “Yeah, right,” or some other creatively sarcastic reply. Read more >

By: Vicki Bohling

If there’s only one thing I’ve learned about parenting after all these years, it’s that the easiest way to parent isn’t always the best way. But, I’ve also learned that there are essentially two universal truths to parenting that every parent should own, accept, and practice every day—no matter what age, stage, phase, or season of parenting you may be weathering. Read more >

By: Jennifer Griffin-Wiesner

In our 15 years of parenting, Shop Guy* and I have learned that the art of parenting includes expecting the unexpected. I’m sure we’ve stared at one another in disbelief (at least once a week) over something baffling one of our kind, sensible kids has done. Read more >

By: Michele Timmons

Do your kids ever push you to the point where you’re “seeing red”? Since the beginning of time, kids have been pushing parents’ buttons, and it can be difficult to step out of the fire, cool off, and maintain a positive attitude despite the situation. Get tips >

By: Michele Timmons

"When my kids become wild and unruly, I use a nice, safe playpen. When they're finished, I climb out." ~ Erma Bombeck

Welcome to a mom’s world. We love our families and our work (usually) and thrive on being needed. But at times, life gets so overwhelming we just don’t know where to turn or how to get out of life's "hamster wheel".

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By: Samantha MacDonald, Online Parent Engagement Coordinator

Last week, ParentFurther Editor, Jennifer, shared her big lesson of 2011 on the ParentFurther blog. This week, our Online Parent Engagement Coordinator, Sam, shares her own life lessons with us. Read Samantha’s life-changing lessons of 2011 now! >

By: ParentFurther Editor, Jennifer Jolly

Last week ParentFurther’s Program Manager, Mary Margaret shared her big lesson of 2011 on the ParentFurther blog. This week, Editor, Jennifer Jolly shares her own life lesson with us. Read Jennifer’s Christmas Miracle story now! >

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

Admit it. The idea of getting together with your extended family during the holidays always sounds better before you actually do it. Then you all get together and suddenly you wish you were somewhere else! Does this mean that you’re anti-family? No. Anti-social? Unlikely. It just means that you’re like most people. Hanging out with the extended family during the holidays can be taxing if you haven’t prepared for it. Get help >

By: Mary Margaret Reagan-Montiel, Parenting Program Manager at Search Institute

As the end of the year approaches, we (the ParentFurther team) have been reflecting on 2011, sharing the parenting, work, and life lessons that we’ve learned (and earned) this year, and thinking about how we’re going to apply these lessons to our own lives in order to live more intentionally in 2012. In the spirit of new beginnings and learning from each other, it’s time we share a few of our stories with you. Maybe you’ll take a lesson from our little life lessons…and, who knows? Maybe you’ll pass it along…
Here’s to parenting with intention in 2012! Read ParentFurther Program Manager, Mary Margaret’s lesson in living thankfully and being prepared for life’s “what-ifs”.

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

In too many families, there is one very stressed out adult (usually the mom) who is not only doing the bulk of the chores around the house, but also doing most of the holiday preparations—on top of parenting! So, moms, as you’re dashing around with all the last-minute details, remember these tips. Read more >

By: Jolene Roehlkepartain

The holiday season is about giving, but we often times “get” more than we give. Teach your kids to help others by being generous not only during the holidays, but as they continue to grow—year after year— into empathetic adults. Learn what research says about why giving is important >