Eat dinner together as often as possible. Try sharing one good and one difficult thing from each person’s day.
Value actions as well as words. Listen to what you teen tells you, and pay close attention to what he does as well as with whom he does it.
Parenting is too much to do alone. Lean on family and friends. Ask others to be a positive force in your child’s life, help enforce boundaries as well as do fun things together with your child.
Think before you speak. Try never to make offhand negative comments (“You’re so lazy!”) as they can have long-term effects on your child’s self image.
When behaviors drive you crazy, give yourself grace. Seek out the wisdom of other parents you admire, try new strategies, and remember you weren’t born knowing how to parent.
Express an interest in your child’s friends and social life. Having the people outside of family who are important to them acknowledged will remind your kids that they are important to you.
Don’t give false praise. Be authentic, but kind. Kids can tell when adults are being fake or insincere.
Surround yourself with families you admire. Learn what you want and don’t want to do. Be intentional with the choices you make in managing your family.