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Tip of the Day March 27

Fri, 2015-04-10 08:33

Place limits on money and talk about why you have the limits you do. For example, you may say that it’s important to save, which is why you don’t say yes to every request to buy something from family members.

Tip of the Day March 26

Tue, 2015-04-07 08:31

Get to know your teenagers’ friends. The more you can connect with them and show them that you’re interested in them, the more likely they’ll try to connect with you.

Tip of the Day March 25

Mon, 2015-04-06 08:33

Set clear, simple limits for young children. They are more likely to follow rules when they understand the rules, when adults are sensitive to their feelings, and when adults notice when they change their behavior for the better.

Tip of the Day March 24

Mon, 2015-04-06 08:33

Teens will pressure you to loosen the reigns and give them more privileges. Think carefully about which rules you can loosen and which need to remain firm.

Tip of the Day March 23

Sun, 2015-04-05 08:34

Notice when your children do the right thing. Tell them that you’re proud of them. Positive feedback gives young people information about which behaviors are appropriate and which are not.

Tip of the Day March 20

Fri, 2015-04-03 08:30

Young teenagers are heavily influenced by their friends. They’ll claim that “they’ll die” if they don’t have a smart phone or some other gadget. Don’t be quick to give in—set standards for what you believe is best for your child.

Tip of the Day March 19

Thu, 2015-04-02 08:34

Set a good example. Exercise with your kids. If that isn’t possible, model what you value by getting involved in some type of physical activity. Stick with it and talk about it.

Tip of the Day March 18

Wed, 2015-04-01 08:30

Your kids may be quick to point out how your rules aren’t like other family’s rules. Be firm. Explain that your family is different. Emphasize how you want your kids to grow up well.

Tip of the Day March 17

Tue, 2015-03-31 08:32

Create a toy exchange with other parents you know. Instead of buying all kinds of toys for your kids, have each family buy different toys. Then periodically swap them out. That way your kids will feel like they’re often getting new toys—without you having to buy them.

Tip of the Day March 16

Mon, 2015-03-30 08:30

Learn the names of your neighbors when you’re outside or when your kids are playing outdoors.

Tip of the Day March 15

Fri, 2015-03-27 08:30

Encourage kids to try different sports to see what interests them. Children can benefit from playing soccer or basketball, participating in gymnastics or martial arts, or doing other age-appropriate sports.

Tip of the Day March 14

Thu, 2015-03-26 08:31

Use car pools when taking kids to activities and practices. Many organizations will let you create a car-pool list if you ask. (Or you can just create your own by talking with other parents.)

Tip of the Day March 13

Wed, 2015-03-25 08:34

As children get older, have them help out with physical chores that give them some exercise. Starting around age 6, kids can help wash the car. Middle school kids can do yard work and shovel snow. High school teens can help move furniture and mow the lawn.

Tip of the Day March 12

Tue, 2015-03-24 08:30

Listen to what your kids want—and why. Really listen. You may be able to help them get what they want by helping them set goals and take steps toward meeting their goals.

Tip of the Day March 11

Mon, 2015-03-23 08:32

Support your teenager, but be careful that you don’t take over their homework, school projects, or household chores. Give them help but just enough to get them to do their part.

Tip of the Day March 10

Fri, 2015-03-20 08:30

If your child discovers a friend in your neighborhood, take the time to get to know the family of your child’s friend.

Tip of the Day March 9

Thu, 2015-03-19 08:30

Make activity fun! Go to the playground together. Follow your child through the playground equipment. If you don’t fit in the equipment, walk around so that you get some exercise while your child plays.

Tip of the Day March 8

Wed, 2015-03-18 08:34

Cook together! Although cooking can be messy, kids often have a blast when they cook something with you that they’re really excited to eat.

Tip of the Day March 7

Tue, 2015-03-17 17:32

Discover ways to have fun when your kids want you to do something over and over and over. After awhile, games can become stale to you—but still fun to your kids. Find a way to inject some fun into activities that become routine for you.

Tip of the Day March 6

Mon, 2015-03-16 17:32

Focus on your overall parenting goal: raising successful, competent kids. You cannot do this if you’re never setting limits.